That dreaded fear. It holds us back from trying new things. It stops us from doing things. It's debilitating. FEAR - of failure. What if I fail and it doesn't work out? FEAR - of success. What if I succeed and I don't know what to do? FEAR - of the unknown. For me, that's the scariest of them all. The unknown? What? Who wants to deal with not feeling secure in our choices? That sucks.
We all have disagreements with others. It’s part of life. We can’t all like the same thing or be into the same thing. There is a part of us that think that our way is the only way. Or if someone doesn’t agree with us then clearly it’s their problem. We also spend more time trying to convince someone and what we end up doing is pushing them farther away. We don’t stop to listen to what they have to say. We are so busy justifying or rationalizing our point of view that we don’t recognize that the other person is valid in how they feel. And it’s also ok to have two different points of views. Crazy concept, I know. ;)