Have you ever been curious about being with more than one partner - consensually? Swinging? Poly? Monogamish? Open? As a couple? Together? Apart? Please join us as we explore what it takes to be in a consensual non-monogamy relationship. Understanding communication, intimacy, basic mutual understandings/ground rules, lessons learned, and jealousy. We will also explore how relationships evolve and transform over time and how to work and grow with the changes. We will also answer any questions you have. Unite not untie.
We all have disagreements with others. It’s part of life. We can’t all like the same thing or be into the same thing. There is a part of us that think that our way is the only way. Or if someone doesn’t agree with us then clearly it’s their problem. We also spend more time trying to convince someone and what we end up doing is pushing them farther away. We don’t stop to listen to what they have to say. We are so busy justifying or rationalizing our point of view that we don’t recognize that the other person is valid in how they feel. And it’s also ok to have two different points of views. Crazy concept, I know. ;)
Is there something you are doing that is sabotaging you? Unhealthy habit? Negative self-talk? When we self-sabotage, it's like we don't believe that we deserve awesomeness. Or maybe that we deserve the negativity. Or sometimes it's the Impostor Syndrome where we think, "Who am I? There is someone that is better or smarter or more qualified, etc. so why even try." We close that door before we even attempt to see what's behind it. We think about 25 steps ahead instead of dealing with right now. We can't think about Step 25 if we haven't dealt with Step 1.